Thursday, November 27, 2008

Selecting color(s) for our "open" floorplan…

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These are paint samples we've tried out to use on what I call the "elevator shaft" that runs up through the house, from the ground level, cutting through the living room and kitchen, and ending above the bedrooms. We like the red-red a lot, but it's too darned much red everywhere. Both living room rugs are red. The huge painting on the far wall is very red. Etc. The terra cottas don't do well with all the red in the room.
Therefore ... we're leaning toward the lighter green. (I know, it looks like gray in this photo, but it's a lighter version of the darker green in actuality.) Where there's carpet, it's a version of this same green. I'm thinking that's going to be it.
The other walls would be 



This little patch of the darker color is what we plan to use everywhere else in the "living" space.

Sunday, November 23, 2008

ThisWeeksSermon: "“Food, water, warm clothing, shelter, etc”

“Food, water, warm clothing, shelter, etc”
Christ the King, November 23, 2008

"I plan to send an article to local newspapers inviting anyone who wishes to be baptized, or wishes to have children baptized. Just show up at the door for the Easter Vigil. Make your promises. And receive the sacrament. No strings attached."

"Helium balloons on strings will float unattached overhead in church and in the parish hall, balloons representing the Gifts of God for the People of God in our community, strings hanging down…unattached."

Click here for a streaming audio clip of the sermon.

Feast of Christ the King
Today we celebrate “Christ the King.”
It’s the idea that the returning Jesus might return as royalty, sovereign, judgmental, with absolute authority, separating the sheep from the goats.
The feast of Christ the King is always celebrated on the last Sunday of the church year.
Roman Catholics, Episcopalians, Lutherans, Methodists, and Presbyterians are among those who join in the observance.

Christ the King: the concept
We make a distinction, you know, between the Jesus of History, and the Christ of Faith.
So when we speak of Christ, it’s not Jesus’ last name, Jesus Christ, son of Joseph and Mary Christ.
When we speak of Christ, it’s the “resurrected,” spiritual Jesus we talk about, not the bodily Jesus.
“Christ the King” is a title for the resurrected Jesus.

This morning’s story (Matthew 25:31-46)
The celebration of Christ the King is based on several passages of scripture.
This morning we heard one of them, Matthew’s version.
Matthew presents our entire reading as though the words came straight from the lips of Jesus, Jesus predicting his own return as a king, seated on a throne, separating the sheep from the goats.
It’s Matthew’s portrayal of the last judgment, the event that the first Christians were expecting would happen at any minute.
It’s Matthew speaking, not Jesus.
It seems to me, however, that what’s really interesting in Matthew’s story is not the judgment-day scenario.
Instead, it’s the glimpse we get of the early church, not their hopes and dreams, but a glimpse of their values, the values that our Christian ancestors held regarding the Christian life.
• Feed the hungry.
• Provide drinking water for those who thirst.
• Provide housing for the homeless.
• Provide clothing for those who are cold.
• Visit the sick.
• Visit prisoners.
The early Christians figured that our eternal destinies hung on either of two sentences.
I was a stranger and you took me in.
Or, I was a stranger and you did not welcome me.
Members of the early church for the most part were Jews.
And for Jews, hospitality was at the core of religious ethics.

Welcoming the stranger: our mission
It’s an interesting coincidence, getting this hospitality lesson from the first century, at the very time we’re focusing on our ministry of hospitality here in Marlboro.
Offering the Gifts of God to the People of God in our community, with no strings attached.
We have opened our doors to neighbors we don’t necessarily know, offering the sacraments.
On Saturday, April 11th, that’s Holy Saturday, the day before Easter, I propose to offer an opportunity for “open baptism” at our church.
I plan to send an article to local newspapers inviting anyone who wishes to be baptized, or wishes to have children baptized.
Just show up at the door for the Easter Vigil.
Make your promises.
And receive the sacrament.
No strings attached.
It’s not just sacraments
And of course you all know that our hospitality extends beyond simply offering sacraments.
Our generosity is expressed as well in ways that Matthew described.
Feeding the hungry, providing housing for the homeless, clothing for those who are cold, visiting the sick.

Food Bank of the Hudson Valley
From your contributions, we send $600 a year to the Food Bank of the Hudson Valley.
In their hands, they’re able to provide more than $6000 worth of food to those who are hungry.
What a deal!

Food pantry at Church of Christ the King in Stone Ridge
Just this week, the leadership in our parish, your vestry, asked me to look for an Ulster County Episcopal parish that is struggling to keep the shelves of its food pantry stocked.
I’ve done that, and it turns out that the Church of Christ the King in Stone Ridge is experiencing exactly that situation, overwhelmed with requests for food and running short.

Housing
In our parish it’s not just sacraments and food that we offer.
We also help provide housing for the homeless.
Once again this year, our church will be involved with Habitat for Humanity, this time building a brand-new house for a family in Newburgh.

Clothing
We also provide clothing for those in need.
In this case it’s school clothes for 35 boys and girls in Tanganyika, most of whom have been orphaned as a result of the AIDS epidemic.
Not only that, we provide schoolbooks and feed those children as well, breakfast every day.

The sick
We visit the sick.
And not just our own parishioners, taking communion, or stopping by.
Once a month we visit residents of the Hudson Valley Nursing Home, talking with them, singing with them, taking Holy Communion to them.

What happens when we offer hospitality?
We do all these things with no strings attached, no expectations that we’ll receive anything in return.
But of course we often do get something in return.
When we show true hospitality, we let people know that someone cares about them.
We let them know that God cares about them them.
And we have the satisfaction of having done something selfless, something right, the satisfaction of having made the best investment of our own time and of our own money that we possibly could.

Jesus at the door
In the Book of Revelation, Jesus is depicted as standing and knocking at the door.
Here I am!
I stand at the door and knock.
If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person.
Most of us would have no problem opening the door to Jesus.
But when the person at the door is an undocumented immigrant, an ex-convict, or a stranger, what should we do?
Do we ignore the knocking and hope the person will go away?
Do we open the door and tell her or him to go away?
Or do we open the door and ask the stranger in, to share what we have.
We know the answer to that question.
It’s “open the door and ask the stranger in to share what we have.”

Our “immigrant” at our church door
It was at a vestry meeting in late spring or early summer, a cold night for that time of year as I recall, it was then that an “immigrant” of sorts showed up at our parish hall during our vestry meeting.
Didn’t knock.
Let himself in and stood in the doorway.
Homeless.
He had left his things outside, hidden away in the bushes.
He was looking for a way to stay warm on a cool night.
And he was hungry.
We stopped the meeting
I wish you could have seen members of your vestry scrambling to help.
Extra clothing found in their cars, a blanket, a sweatshirt.
Digging around in the refrigerator to find something he might want to eat or drink
What does a homeless person do on a cold night on Route 9W.
Turns out he was rather fussy about clothes and food, and was very persistently independent.
But he sat through our meeting.
The best we could do for him was to get him up to McDonalds in Highland with enough money for a couple of meals, and offer directions to social services in Poughkeepsie.

Vestry hosting Nov. 30th
The leadership in this parish is awesome.
All the right instincts.
It’s a pretty amazing experience to sit with them at a vestry meeting.
Members of this vestry have already turned in their pledge commitments.
And next Sunday, the day the rest of us will be returning our pledge commitments, this vestry will be hosting a rather gala reception following the service, a celebration of God’s generosity and of our ability to offer hospitality.
Cake from The Pastry Garden, hors d’oeuvres.
Helium balloons on strings will float unattached overhead in church and in the parish hall, balloons representing the Gifts of God for the People of God in our community, strings hanging down…unattached.

Prayer
Let us pray.
Eternal God, the Great Mystery that is outside everything and yet at the same time inside, keep alive in each one of us the search for a faith that is real, a faith that helps us to live happier lives, a faith that gives us a fuller meaning to life and the events of life.
Bring us to know the goodness that flows from the heart of the universe and may we be expanded in heart and soul by that goodness.
This is our prayer. Amen.

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

ThisWeeksSermon: "Abundance, generosity, and sharing the wealth"

“Abundance, generosity, and sharing the wealth”
The 26th Sunday After Pentecost, November 9, 2008

“I don’t know about you, but I think it’s safe to say that after a couple of thousand years, we can be sure that the Messiah is not going to reappear in the way those early Christians expected.”

“Matthew ended by telling us exactly what the kingdom of God should look like.
It is feeding the hungry, he said.
Clothing the naked, welcoming the stranger, visiting the sick and those in prison.”
Click here to listen.

May I speak only the truth, and may only the truth be heard by you, in the name of God our Creator, our redeemer, and our sanctifier. Amen.

This morning’s readings
Some interesting readings this morning, I think.

First reading: Wisdom of Solomon
The first reading, from the Wisdom of Solomon, was written only about 50 years before Jesus was born.
It’s worth mentioning, I think, because in this book of the Bible, God is described in the feminine.
Wisdom is another word for God, and Wisdom is a feminine noun.
Wisdom is a “she.”
We’re told that this feminine God is radiant and unfading, accessible, easy to spot by anyone looking for her.
Imagine that!
God the Mother.

Second reading: Paul’s correspondence
And then I can’t go on to the gospel without briefly mentioning the second reading, as well.
It was a piece of correspondence between Paul and members of a newly organized church that he’d started up in Greece.
This correspondence is maybe the earliest writing included in the Christian part of the Bible, written maybe as few as just 15 years after Jesus’ earthly walk.
At that time, you know, the early Christians were expecting Jesus to return, as the messiah, the Christ, any minute.
Literally.
Sucking everyone up into the sky.
They thought that absolutely everyone would be resurrected with Christ when that happened, and they were worried about what would happen to friends and family who had already died.
Paul was reassuring them that when the time came, everyone would get to go, the living and the dead.
What’s particularly noteworthy is that it’s this little passage that’s the basis for the fundamentalist belief in “the Rapture.”
Many believe it’s literally going to happen that way.
It’s also this little passage that’s the basis for the bumper stickers.
In case of rapture, this car will be unmanned.
And the bumper sticker responses:
After the rapture, can I have your car?
I want you to know that the word rapture doesn’t even appear in the Bible.
The entire concept is based on this one paragraph taken from a letter written by Paul, a Jesus-follower who turned out to be very influential in the formation of the church as we know it today.

The gospel: Matthew & the 10 maidens
This morning gospel of Matthew picked up that thread, not about a rapture, but about waiting for the return of a Messiah.
Matthew invites us to believe that it was Jesus who told this story about bridesmaids waiting for a bridegroom who was delayed.
Matthew invites us to believe that it was Jesus who predicted his own resurrection and return in a second coming.

Parable of the 10 bridesmaids: not Jesus’ words
The reading, referred to as “the parable of the ten bridesmaids,” may simply have been derived from common lore in the ancient Near East.
Some scholars think it may have been totally the creation of Matthew, the writer, not a story told by Jesus at all.
The bridesmaids who were ready to go to the party got to go.
The ones who weren’t ready were shut out.
It nothing like other parables of Jesus.
Jesus was the guy who was always going against against the grain, both religious and social, always questioning conventional wisdom.
This story, instead… confirms conventional wisdom, defends the status quo.
There’s no unexpected twist at the end, typical of Jesus’ parables, no riddle to figure out.
It all turns out as expected.
Also, the parable emphasizes the social boundaries between those inside, and those outside.
The closed door is a definitive boundary.
Jesus, on the other hand, was much more interested in breaking down social barriers than he was about erecting them.

American values: individualism & meritocracy
It’s easy to read this morning’s parable of the ten virtuous bridesmaids as a tribute to a core American value: our value of rugged individualism, the priority of looking out for number one.
It sounds more like our culture than the mind of Jesus.
The “password” for entrance into God’s kingdom has never been “try harder.”
The kingdom’s economy has never been one of scarcity.
(If I share with you, I won’t have enough for myself.
That’s not what Jesus ever suggested.)
Instead, the kingdom of heaven is about abundance, about generosity, about sharing the wealth with one another.

Jesus’ values: generosity
Jesus embraced as his own those who were excluded by the respectably religious people of his day.
He was a friend to sinners.
He was a friend to people who were avoided by religious people.
His hospitality, and openness, and his generosity got him into terrible trouble with those who believed it was their job to maintain strong moral standards, maintain the law, maintain the status quo.
It eventually got him killed.
Nowhere in scripture will you find the mantra, “Love the sinner but hate the sin.”
In spite of how often you hear that sentence, it's usually the sinner, not the sin, who’s ostracized, criticized, crucified.

A second coming, really?
I don’t know about you, but I think it’s safe to say that after a couple of thousand years, we can be sure that the Messiah is not going to reappear, at least not in the way those early Christians expected.
For us the story’s got to be about something else, maybe about staying awake, not losing heart, not losing faith, keeping hope alive.
Maybe it’s the idea that the kingdom of God is always yet to come, just beyond our reach.
Maybe it’s the idea that the best is yet to come, although it may not come in the way we expect it.
This morning’s story was the way Matthew began chapter 25.
But he ended it on quite a different note.
He ended it by telling us exactly what the kingdom of God should look like.
It is feeding the hungry, he said.
Clothing the naked, welcoming the stranger, visiting the sick and those in prison.
Two wolves inside, good and evil: Feed the one who wins.
There’s a native American (Cherokee) story that goes to the heart of it.
One evening an old grandfather told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside of people.
He said, “My son, the battle is between two wolves that live inside each one of us.
One wolf is Evil.
That wolf is anger, envy, and jealousy, greed and lies.
The other wolf is Good.
The good wolf is joy and peace and love, hope and humility.
The good wolf is compassion, and empathy., truth and generosity.”
The grandson thought about the battle between the wolves or a minute or so and then asked his grandfather, “Which wolf wins?”
The Cherokee grandfather replied, “The one you feed.”

Prayer
Let us pray.
Eternal God, the Great Mystery that is outside everything and yet at the same time inside, keep alive in each one of us the search for a faith that is real, a faith that helps us to live happier lives, a faith that gives us a fuller meaning to life and the events of life.
Bring us to know the goodness that flows from the heart of the universe and may we be expanded in heart and soul by that goodness.
This is our prayer. Amen.

Twins are new members November 9th

Twins Emily and Mason Smit were baptized yesterday at The Episcopal Church. A full house, with a celebration following the service. Lots of energy. Take a look!

Friday, November 7, 2008

Church school boys & girls sing on All Saints Day


During the celebration of All Saints Day, also a children's service Sunday, the boys and girls from our Church School performed. It was a song they learned this past summer at our vacation Bible school. They did a great job! Take a look.


ThisWeeksSermon November 2d, All Saints Day


“A glimpse of the oneness of life. Heaven”
All Saints Day, November 2, 2008

"All we do need is to realize that everything we need, we already have. We are complete and whole as we are. We have your own experiences. We develop your own spirituality. We even put together our own portraits of God. It’s okay to name God in any way that makes sense to you. It’s good, and right, and Godly, I think, to walk a path that is authentic for you."

Well, it’s come and gone again.
Halloween.
Not my favorite time, by any means.
Doorbell ringing.
Dog barking.
Kids holding out open bags, expecting contributions of candy, pranksters spraying their fathers’ shaving cream all over the place, and costumes, a once-a-year opportunity to pretend to be someone you’re not!
A doctor or a witch, a nun or an astronaut, whatever.
My favorite talk-radio psychologist, Dr. Joy Browne, says that Halloween is the one time in the year when men have permission to dress up as women, and women can dress up as professional “ladies of the night.”
It all started with a fourth century holy day
All of this pretending started, you know, as a result of Halloween’s proximity to All Saints Day.
Halloween on the last day of October.
All Saints Day on the first day of November.
All Saints, is the day in which all of the dead are remembered.
But it’s more than that.
It’s the day when we’re asked not only to “remember,” but to experience a oneness with those who have gone before.
We call that oneness “the Communion of Saints.”
It’s not just them, “communing” with each other.
It’s us and them, in communion with each other.
In the Catechism at the back of the Book of Common Prayer, the Communion of Saints is defined as “the whole family of God, the living and the dead, those whom we love and those whom we hurt, bound together.”
In a few minutes, in the Nicene Creed, we’ll all claim, out loud, that we believe in the “Communion of Saints.”
It’s a spiritual connection that we have, all of us who are alive, with all who have died, those who are here, with those who have departed.
When we say we believe in the Communion of Saints, we’re saying that we are part of one, single, mystical body.
One entity, one reality.
We’re saying we live in togetherness with the departed.
For the preacher
For a preacher, All Saints Day is an opportune moment to talk about something we do a petty good job of talking about in church:
life and death.
In one of T.S. Eliot’s well known poems, he asked this question:
"Why should anyone love the church?"
It’s the church that tells us of life and death, and all that we would wish to forget.
It’s the church that is tender where we would be brittle,, and brittle where we like to be soft.
The church tells us of evil and sin, and other unpleasant facts.
We constantly try to escape from the darkness outside and within, by dreaming of systems so perfect that no one will need to be good.
"Why in the heck should anyone love the church?"
The church tells us of life and death, and all that we would wish to forget.
Christians’ understanding of afterlife
The Christian understanding of life after death has traditionally depended on the idea that God was an “out-there,” record-keeping deity, a sort of Santa Clause living above the clouds, knowing if you’ve been bad or good, Santa, before whom you would have to appear for judgment at the end of your days.
That idea of judgment portrayed human beings as chronically immature people, children, who stood quietly before an authoritative parent figure sitting on a throne.
Children, waiting to receive either an eternal reward, in heaven, for our goodness, or an eternal punishment, not in heaven, for our badness.
The notion of heaven
The idea of heaven has a long and interesting history.
In Hebrew culture, some long-ago rabbis believed in a very specific and literal notion of the heavens.
They believed there were actually seven heavens.
The first shielded the light at night.
The second housed the snow and the rain.
(This was not science.)
The third housed righteous souls, the fourth housed the angels, and so on.
(When someone says she’s in seventh heaven, she’s so happy, this is where the expression comes from, the Hebrew notion of seven heavens, each closer and closer to God.)
At the giving of the law to Moses, it’s said that the heavens were opened, and the Israelites were able to gaze at the majesty of the seven heavens.
On the other hand, less-literal Hebrew mystics interpreted the seven heavens far more internally and symbolically.
There were no literal seven heavens.
These less-literal mystics interpreted heaven as a process, a process of going deeper and deeper within oneself, deeper to greater self-knowledge and clarity.
For them, the seven heavens were interpreted as realizations of something inexpressible.
Never a literal place
Those mystics of course had it right.
The heavens were never literal places.
They were always more than that.
They have always been profound insights from within oneself.
If you’ve had the privilege of sitting with someone just before she or he has died, or maybe even in the last days and weeks before death, you may have witnessed an indescribable peace, a peace that comes over individuals when they become accepting of death, at one with their situation.
If you’ve had that privilege, then you’ve gotten a glimpse of the oneness of those who are living and those who have died, all things united.
Many people see that, and know that, before they die.
Hebrew mystics described it as “the skies opening.”
And every once in awhile we are gifted with that vision, a peek, a glance at the divine.
Every once in awhile we are gifted with a glimpse of a sacred wonder and mystery of Oneness with all.
Life after death
I deeply believe in God, even though I struggle to put it into words.
My current favorite definition of God (you may recognize it) is "God the Awesome Mystery that Moves Among Us and Lives Within Each One of Us."
I’m sure that I cannot tell you who God is, or what God is.
Nor can you tell me.
We're human beings who are bound by both time and space, and yet when we speak about God, we're trying to describe that which is not bound by time and space.
I believe that to be true, as well, of our ideas about the afterlife.
When we speak about afterlife, we who are bound by time and space are trying to describe that which is not bound by time and space.
You don’t have to escape this world
We do not need to escape this world in order to experience the reality of heaven and God.
We do not need to be told what to think by ancient writers of our scriptures.
We do not need priests, or bishops, or any other authority to tell us what to think.
All we do need is to do is realize that everything we need, we already have.
We are complete and whole as we are.
We have your own experiences.
We develop your own spirituality.
We even put together our own portraits of God.
It’s okay to name God in any way that makes sense to you.
It’s good, and right, and Godly, I think, to walk a path that is authentic for you.
Be who you are
Halloween, with its bags of candy, shaving cream pranks, and pretending to be someone you’re not.
Halloween was the day before yesterday.
Today, it’s All Saints Day here in our church.
No need to pretend to be someone we’re not.
Today, the church tells us of life and death, and all that we would wish to forget.
But today the church also tells us of heaven and hope.
The church offers a glimpse of the oneness, of the living alongside the dead, of all things united in the Communion of Saints.
Today we are offered a peek, a glance at the divine, a glimpse of a sacred wonder and mystery.